Updated February 19th, 2024

Books

Unfortunately out of print, but copies can be found for those who really want to read it. This book contains one of the best historical overviews of spirit-human relationships throughout the centuries. Probably the most scholarly work on this list, Tyson has taken great care to document his interactions with amorous spirits and the methods through which he made contact.

Highly recommended as a primer on sexual spirits and their history.

Liber Lilith, Donald Tyson

Alleged to be an ancient Gnostic grimoire, retelling the old creation myth with Lilith at the center of it all. This volume is bewitching, and possibly very dangerous in the wrong hands. The pull and draw of succubi is undeniable while reading this fascinating work. Is it fiction? Maybe, though I’ve felt its effects from reading my copy.

This book contains some rituals that would be quite illegal if performed literally. As with any descent down the Left-Hand Path, the operator must walk that fine line between insanity and illumination.

Following the Grimoire, a cautionary tale of the German occultist, Karl Steiger, finishes off the work. The journal documents his descent into madness as he becomes more enamored by the Dark Goddess. Liber Lilith is probably the most confronting, yet exhilarating, book on this list. Tread carefully!

Here is a synopsis from the author that was uncovered on Archive.org.

Sexual Outlaw, Erotic Mystic: The Essential Ida Craddock, Vere Chappell

For anyone who is struggling with their spirit relationship, trying to understand the nuances and complexities of human-spirit interaction, I recommend they consider Ida Craddock’s writings. Comparing my own experience, I know the relationship she had with her spirit lover, Soph, was real and quite similar to my own. Her insights are indispensable and especially comforting for those who come from a Christian background.

Whereas Liber Lilith will scare the reader senseless, Ida Craddock provides a down-to-earth perspective on loving entities from the Boderland. Many of her writings are freely available online, but this book contains some of her most well-researched treasures; elucidating occult wisdom grounded in ancient traditions. She tells precisely what the symbolism means and how spirit-human relationships are surprisingly replete in the historical record.

Aleister Crowley enthusiastically endorsed Craddock’s writings in his own written review, proclaiming, “I may say that it is one of the most remarkable human documents ever produced…”

Demonality; or, Incubi and Succubi, Ludovico Maria Sinistrari

This is the oldest book on the succubus phenomena that I know of. Sinistrari was a Catholic exorcist and advisor to the inquisition who had a unique take on the morality of being entangled with these incorporeal lovers. He details several accounts of 16th and 17th century witnesses beset by the shenanigans of smitten demons. This book contains a surprisingly unbiased assessment on these entities, especially given the author’s religious upbringing and the intolerant political climate of the time.

My Spirit Lover Series, Atkin Michaels

These books actually originated from this blogging community. Atkin Michaels keeps a very detailed and thorough journal of both his, and his wife’s, experience with sex spirits.

I haven’t read the last two in the series, but I found the first book was great for getting an almost real-time account of what the introductory phase is like.

Adventures Beyond the Body, William Buhlman

This was one of the first books I managed to get my hands on when I began to study Astral Projection. Mr. Buhlman recounts many of his most fascinating out-of-body experiences and how his interest in the subject was kindled.

This one is a page-turner and is great for priming the subconscious mind into a lucid dreaming/OBE-mode. The more one reads about astral journeys, the more likely they are to occur!

The Phase, Michael Raduga

An earlier edition of this book is available for free as an e-book format. I highly recommend this comprehensive work; freely distributed from a very generous Russian. The “Indirect Method,” pioneered by Raduga’s research, remains the most reliable and repeatable pathway towards out-of-body travel I have yet found. If the directions are followed exactly, this shit works, and it doesn’t cost a cent.

There are also plenty of out-of-body experiences recorded in his books and they are indispensable for getting the subconscious mind into the right mode for attempting an exit.

Astral Dynamics, Robert Bruce

I have my disagreements with Robert Bruce, especially his opinion on succubi. However, ideological differences shouldn’t stop anyone from taking a deep dive into his Astral projection books. This is the most detailed work pertaining to the Astral world that I’ve come across. It contains everything from the physics of each environment, methods of travel, flora, fauna, and investigations into the Akashic Records.

Evoking Eternity, E. A. Koetting

E. A. Koetting is a controversial figure in the occult community. Some have derided him for his internet marketing tactics and attention-grabbing videos. For anyone who gleaned that sort of impression from their cursory glance of his website: give the man a second chance. His books are well written and worth the read for any aspiring ceremonial magician. The Book of Azazel is available on Youtube as a free audio book. I recommend this book to anyone who is considering venturing down the Left-Hand Path. I can corroborate his claims about how these demons work and the process of initiation. I don’t work with Azazel, but the challenging and purifying process that Koetting goes through is much the same as my own growth in the infernal current. Evoking Eternity is another great primer from Koetting, with detailed instructions for evoking spirits and what to expect.

Links

A Guide to Summoning Succubi – Archived Authspot Article
SUCCUPEDIA – Letter of Intent Guide
Rafe’s Summoning Guides – Option A and Option B
Astenu Sever’s 5-Step Summoning Guide – Occultist.net
Spiritlover.com – Interesting articles about succubi, summoning spirits, djinn, fae, and general occultism.
SuccuSummon – Archive – Erik Vonroth’s Site, Summoning Classes.
Russian Succubus Site
Russian Succubus Forum
How to Summon a Succubus – Encyclopedia Satanica
Joy of Satan Succubus/Incubus Article
Your Ghost Stories – Incubus and Succubus Stories
The Secret Commonwealth of Elves, Fauns, and Faery Lovers – R. J. Stewart – 1600s historical primary source for humans having intimate relationships with supernatural fairies, as recorded in a priest’s journal.
Meridiana – Succubus Lover of a Pope
The Complete Psychonaut Field Manual – A Cartoon Guide to Chaos Magick

Videos

Dreamgasm #1 – 2 – 3 – 4 – Erotic binaural beats videos with summoning chants for succubi.
Lady Lilith Enn Chanting (Binaural Beats, Wear Headphones) – Satan & Suns – YouTube Video
SEX – The Secret Gate to Eden – Documentary – The secret knowledge of sexual alchemy that all succubi attempt to teach their human lovers.
I Gave Up Men to Have Sex with Ghosts – Amethyst Realm – YouTube Video
Icelandic Elf Sex – Vice Video – A woman shares her take on sex with the Icelandic elves and how copulation with humans is boring by comparison. (Similar to succubus phenomena, and even more physical.)
Summoning a Succubus – A Real Account /w JS Garrett – J. D. Temple interviews a man who summons a succubus demon in the midst of his relationship with a human girlfriend.

Blogs

Blogs with the Active tag have been updated within the year. Blogs with the Inactive tag haven’t been updated for more than a year. The ARCHIVE tag indicates the blog as having been deleted by the owner and the most recent snapshot from archive.org is referenced instead.

AcrossInfinity – Active – Richard’s blog. A spirit keeper in a succubus relationship. He delves into many cultures and magickal traditions in his posts.

All About Succubus – Inactive – A succubus relationship that didn’t work out.

Arkzyk – ARCHIVE – Johnthesheep, a frequent commenter here, shares his journey with succubi.

A Succubus Loved Me – ARCHIVE – On again, off again, relationship with succubus spirits.

A Succubus Loves Me – Active – Requires a Google account for age verification – Rafe has shared a great deal about his journey with succubi. His is the most active and consistently updated blog on the subject.

Cassandra: My Succubus Lover – Inactive – Requires a Google account for age verification – Meatloaf’s account of a budding relationship with a very powerfully manifesting succubus spirit.

Chalice Diabolic – Hosting Expired – No archive – The Valeyard’s blog. Informative posts about spirits and the occult.

Earthbound Alien 81 – Inactive – Tim’s blog, where his succubi often speak for themselves in their own posts.

Faustus Crow – Active – The eclectic art studio of an enigmatic crow who has been sharing his diabolical creations about succubi for over a decade. Home of the Goetia Girls books.

FuccASucc – Active – A blog with general information about succubi, ritual magick, and a letter ritual.

Harry Holmes – ARCHIVE – One of the first succubus blogs. The author dropped off the map years ago.

Koontzz123’s Blog – Inactive – Another succubus blogger that went dark a couple years ago.

My Paranormal Experiences – Inactive – Altarage and his relationship with the succubus, “X.”

My Spirit Love – ARCHIVE – The creator of the My Spirit Love books on Amazon. Upcoming Lilith book.

The Mystery of Lilith/Succubus/Incubus – Inactive – Requires a Google account for age verification – Tilus’ blog about his experiences with Lilith and succubi. Contains discord link to Lilith study group.

Mystery’s Succubus Blog – Active – Discussing succubi, tulpas, and other topics.

My Succubus Marissa – ARCHIVE – One of the oldest blogs, about a man and his succubus, Marissa. Deleted early 2019.

My Succubus Romance – Inactive – TrippingOverGalaxies and their relationship with the succubus, Avira.

My “Succubus” Wife – Inactive – Loose Canon’s blog. He doesn’t talk about his own succubus much, but he covers a wide gamut of topics in the same vein.

Ryan’s Succubus Blog – Inactive – An older popular blog, famous for its summoning rituals.

Sex with Humans is Boring – Inactive – An Icelandic woman shares her experiences having sex with elves.

SLiPkid’s Virtual Shadows – Active – Requires a Google account for age verification – Records of conversations between a man and his spirit partner, Penelope.

Spirit Compendium – Inactive – A former Christian pastor has his life radically changed by Lilith and his succubus, “V.”

Spirit Sanctum – Inactive – Netsirt’s blog about their relationship with the angel, Gabriel.

Spirit Wife Jazmine – ARCHIVE – Ken757’s blog. A spirit keeper, with thousands of succubi in tow.

Succubi Thoughts – Inactive – A reader of the succubus threads from -x- shares their story and advice about summoning succubi.

Succubus Collective – Inactive – A unique view of succubi as a collective.

SuccubusDesire – Inactive – Kiwi who eventually found his succubus, Luna.

SuccubusDominance – Inactive – Covers various LHP topics. Follows Asenath Mason. Has a relationship with a succubus named, Nyx.

SuccubusHolmes – Inactive – A relationship with a succubus named, “Bell.” Tens of succubi join in later.

Succubusluv – Inactive – One of the older succubus bloggers with multiple succubi. He has many EVP recordings.

Succubus Thoughts – Inactive – Crystal’s blog. She believes that she is an human incarnation of a succubus spirit.

Succudude90 – Inactive – Succubi, various drugs, and getting high.

Succunation – ARCHIVE – A man in a relationship with two succubus spirits. Disappeared years ago.

SUCCUPEDIA – Inactive – Has an interesting, almost steam-punkish take on the succubus experience.

The Midnight Plane – Inactive – Blackraven888’s relationship with his succubus, Ciara.

The Succubus Study – ARCHIVE – Dalrealxgen, The Spiritual Cynic, and his relationship with the succubus, Rosalia. Lots of pop-culture critique interspersed. Blog deleted December 2018.

Yukshee Succubus Sexual Alchemy – ARCHIVE – A blog that contains instructions for summoning yukshee specifically. Blog deleted in the summer of 2019.