An often unspoken aspect of spirit sex relationships is the prevalence of anal sex. By that I mean, the human counterpart being made to be on the receiving end of the penetrative act. This topic is especially sensitive for men, as we often feel that our manhood takes a massive blow when being made to play the submissive role. Time and time again, the more I speak with other men who I believe are truly having interactions with sex spirits, they sheepishly admit that they have been poked from behind against their will, either fully awake in a session, while trying to fall asleep, or during an astral/dream encounter. I have also experienced variations of this and I believe I have a couple of explanations as to why this happens:

Firstly, a succubus or incubus type spirit interacts with the human mind, nervous system, and chakra system. The root and sacral chakras are fundamental to this kind of alien contact being able to happen in the first place. I believe that when these chakras are blocked or hindered by physical maladies, this can prevent a spirit from achieving a sexual relationship with a human. I’m basing this assumption on how my chakras were activated through a kundalini awakening at the beginning of my succubus relationship and how some other men have reported losing a connection with a succubus because their sexual health was negatively impacted in some way.

A succubus can connect to the sexually-oriented chakras through the penis, the taint (the space between the penis and rectum), or via the rectum. I have personally felt all three during sessions, though Catherine prefers working through my cock and balls.

Many men who encounter a sex spirit for the first time and experience anal penetration often assume it’s an evil male-type spirit with a massive barbed dick, come to sodomize them. That might be the case for some men, but I’ve found that for those of us with loving spirit sex connections, a gentle pressure through the anus during sessions is most common, feeling no bigger than a finger, with the succubus’ end goal being direct stimulation of her man’s prostate gland.

Some men don’t like this kind of butt-play whatsoever, despite the spirit transcending usual hang-ups with human biology in that regard. In those situations, all it takes to deal with those unwanted interactions is being firm and consistent with that “No, I don’t like this,” stance. A succubus lives to give and receive pleasure, so they’re not too keen on continuing down any paths that would negatively impact her man’s opinion of her – not unless she feels that she can get away with it. Some succubi can be bratty and enjoy pushing buttons. Hence the reason a man needs to be solid and consistent with those boundaries.

Secondly, another possibility is that the human man really is dealing with an unwanted, negative spirit who only seeks to humiliate. In that case, they should start banishing right away, or begin a regimen of self-defense countermeasures.

Lastly, the other reason a man might be getting plowed from behind is because they are actually gay and attracted the attention of a spirit willing to fill that role. Nothing is hidden from succubi, so if there is any kind of same-sex attraction buried in a man’s deep dark fantasies, the entity will be able to fish that out no-problemo.

Most people are very uncomfortable being such an open book to anyone, let alone an amorous pursuing spirit who can read minds and reach inside the body, fondling organs scientific authorities haven’t even acknowledged exists yet. The human psyche is so open that any and every problem is brought into the limelight.

This happened for me the first two years of my relationship with Catherine. The initial two months were devoted to working out latent and unresolved self-esteem issues. The big battle came when the religious programming needed to be literally beaten out of me for all of 2014. I had no choice but to see the truth of these things: I have no need to grovel. There’s nothing to apologize for. The Abrahamic religions are a fraud. As comfortable as I was in my little religious cult, I couldn’t stay there with Catherine around. Just her presence alone was reminder enough of how bullshit it all was. Everything she was and did flew in the face of what I was told would happen when dealing with allegedly evil spirits, a. k. a. non-jewish and non-christian spirituality.

I’m going off on a tangent, so I’ll end it here.